Obon: When the Dead Visit for Three Days

The fire at the gate is lit on the evening of August thirteenth.

It is a small fire — a few stalks of hemp or a handful of mugwort, enough to make a visible flame and a fragrant smoke. The smoke is the signal. The ancestors, who have been in the place where the dead go, need something to navigate by in the transition back to the house they lived in. The fire at the gate is the lighthouse. They follow it home.

Inside, the butsudan — the household Buddhist altar — has been cleaned. The photograph of the grandfather or the grandmother or the person who died recently is at the center. Fresh flowers, water, food that the dead person liked when alive. The cushion in front of the altar where the living sit to speak to the dead has been placed freshly.

For three days, the house holds both.

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The story the Buddhist tradition gives for Obon’s origin is about Mokuren — the Japanese name for Maudgalyāyana, one of the ten great disciples of the historical Buddha, whose supernatural powers were the greatest of any disciple. He used those powers to look for his dead mother and found her in the realm of hungry ghosts — the gaki realm — where the dead who accumulated great greed in life are tormented by constant hunger they cannot satisfy.

He tried to bring her food. The food burst into flame before it reached her.

He came to the Buddha and asked what to do. The Buddha said: Make an offering to the monks on the fifteenth day of the seventh month. Their merit, collectively offered, will release your mother.

Mokuren did. His mother was released.

When he saw her freed, he danced with joy. That dancing — spontaneous, communal, born from the release of someone trapped — is the origin of the Bon Odori, the Obon dance that takes place on summer evenings in every town in Japan.

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The Bon Odori is performed in concentric circles around a drum platform in the town square or temple courtyard. The form varies by region — different choreography, different songs — but the circling movement is constant. Everyone dances, not just the skilled. Children, grandparents, the recently arrived in town who do not know the steps, everyone circles the platform in the warm August evening.

The dead are watching. This is not sentimental belief; this is the operational understanding of the festival. The dancing is the welcome. The movement is the form the welcome takes. The living who have cleaned the house and lit the gate fire and prepared the altar demonstrate their continued connection to the dead by dancing the same dances the dead danced when they were alive.

On the evening of August fifteenth, the ancestors must go back.

Small paper lanterns are floated on rivers, lit from within, carrying the light of the living world on the water. The lanterns move downstream, toward the sea, toward the place the dead return to. The living stand at the riverbank and watch the lights move away in the dark water.

This is the moment the festival is actually about.

Not the welcome — the welcome is also the goodbye.

The lights move away.

The ancestors go back.

The house is a little quieter for having been, briefly, full.